The most simple and effective technique you can use to create a wave of attraction that will have women chasing you around the room at any bar, club or lounge is to walk around and give cheers.

Giving cheers is a way of giving out fun energy, and fun is a natural aphrodisiac to women. Just have a look at most women’s profiles on Internet dating sites and you will see the word “fun” popping up over and over again. When women are asked which qualities they find the most attractive in a man, “a guy who is fun” always makes in the top 10.

Obviously fun is very important to women, so I think learning how to have it could really improve our dating lives. Giving cheers is probably the best way to practice your fun skills if you are starting your social life from scratch.

The way to give cheers in a way that makes a powerful impression that can be broken down into three steps:

1. Put a Big Smile on Your Face.

Before you walk over there, take a deep breath and put a big, friendly smile on your face. A warm smile will make your first impression twice as effective and will disarm even the coldest ice queen from rejecting you. In fact, walking up with a big smile is often enough to not even have to say anything at all.

2. Get Their Attention

Almost everyone at these parties are already in a conversation, so it’s natural that conversations get interrupted all the time. People generally won’t take it personally if you are interrupting in a friendly way because everyone is there to meet people and socialize. Interrupting is okay as long as you do it in a polite and friendly way that gives them the chance to acknowledge you first.

The best way to interrupt without being rude is to move into their field of vision then extend your hand out to cheers them. It’s important that you get into their physical space. Think of it as though your best friends were having a conversation across the room and you walk into the circle to join them. Extend your glass into their field of vision so that they know that you are trying to cheers them, that way they can’t ignore you. Sometimes it’s a good idea to say “hey guys” in a comfortably loud enough voice while you extend your hand so that they hear you, too. As long as you commit to getting their attention first, they won’t be likely to ignore you.

DO NOT make the deadly mistake of approaching from behind and yelling “Cheers” before they have acknowledged you. That will only startle and frighten them. Being the guy who abruptly startled them is not the kind of first impression you want to leave with somebody.

3. Commit 100%

When you give cheers, look the person in the eye with a big confident smile that shows you are certain that they will cheers the back. By showing any self-doubt that they won’t give cheers back, they will show that same hesitance back. Even if you don’t feel that confident, extend your hand all the way out there within a few inches of their glass or bottle, then tap your glass into various. I know it sounds like some weird hokey nonsense, but the more confident that you cheers them, the more confident they will cheers you back. When you try this new will see what I mean.

If you do this enough times in one night, you will create what a wave of attraction throughout the room called “The Mayor Effect.” In my book, “Social Life from Scratch”, I go into depth on how to use this technique and others to create The Mayor Effect without being ignored that will have women coming back to talk to you later and asking for your phone number. If you are being ignored by the girls you approach at bars and clubs, you NEED to read this:

How To Pick Up Women In Nightclubs

Go out and have some fun tonight! Spread some fun energy and give cheers! Then send me an e-mail and let me know how it goes.