Pimpin’ Ain’t Easy… Or Is It?

What if you had ten girlfriends?

It would be great at first…

You never sleep alone and have lots of variety.
You cross that off your _Things To Do Before I Die_ list.
Your women give you back rubs, do your laundry, and feed you grapes and fan you with a giant feather while you lay in bed.

…But what’s the cost?

Now that you have it, the thrill of the chase is gone.
You never hang out with your friends, enjoy your hobbies, or do all those things you once loved doing.
Your boss is on your back because your work is suffering.

*\*sigh\**

_”Pimpin’ ain’t easy.”_

…Or is it?

There is an easy way to build an amazing lifestyle full of harems, threesomes, long-term relationships, or whatever floats your boat if we keep one thing in mind:

**The means do not justify the end.**

Going on fifty dates, mercilessly begging for hours, putting your life on hold, or getting sidetracked from the important things in life does not justify itself because it can get you laid.

Our goal here is to attract and keep women in only the most fun and enjoyable ways — _anything less is unacceptable._

So, if we we’re starting from scratch here (no girlfriends, no social life, etc.) what can we do to get started?

1. **Stop calling women.** This is how to free up 99% of the time that most so-called players give up in the pursuit of women. Taking numbers and constantly pursuing women to setup meetings, spending hours chatting on the phone, and creating all this extra work for ourselves is not our aim.

Our aim is to meet in person with women who are interested in us and enjoy our time together. Do we really want to chase down people who are going to waste our time? Of course not! We leave our lines of communication open to people who want to meet up, and if they don’t call, that’s fine because we never had to give anything up other than our number.

There’s a lot that can be said about this way of living, and if you want to hear it from an expert on the topic, checkout [Brent Smith](http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/) and Dave M’s podcast at [attracthotterwomen.com](http://www.attracthotterwomen.com/amember/go.php?r=541&i=l0).

2. **Screen faster.** Is she hot? That’s a good start. Is she intelligent? Bonus! Does she have a negative attitude? _BZZT!_ Move on. Does she want you to take her on three dinner dates before she thinks about sleeping with you? _BZZT!_ Move on.

Sure, some of my criteria in a woman will differ from yours, and not any little thing should be a complete show-stopper, but if she is going to create drama or waste your time, _move on!_ Unless you develop the habit of walking away fast when your criteria isn’t met, you might find yourself stuck with a harem from hell.

3. **Meet her on your terms.** Cancelling plans, driving for hours to chauffer or meet women, and general bending over backwards to get laid is a headache no man needs, and ultimately an attraction killer.

Let’s keep it simple: meet women where you chose, when you chose.

Bring her into your world. Let her know she’s welcome to join you and your friends at your favourite lounge. Give her directions to the cosy hole-in-the-wall cafe across the street from your home. Make it a relaxing night at home, and tell her to stop by if she feels like it (and to pickup some beverages along the way).

It’s time to stop jumping through hoops! Besides, it’s pretty much unsustainable to have more than one high-maintenance girlfriend.

We can start redefining what success with women is by attracting (and keeping) beautiful women without sacrificing everything to get there. Let’s make pimpin’ easy — it doesn’t have to be difficult.